Mom and Dad

Last week when I went to visit my parents, I noticed that my mother was having trouble breathing.  She was feeling weak she said.  I had the nurse at the home take her blood pressure and pulse.  Erratic and rapid.  Since it was after doctor's office hours, I took her to the local hospital ER.

After running several tests well into the evening, she was admitted.  Diagnosed with Afib, leaky valves and congestive heart failure.  Mom was hospitalized for several days.


She was very sad to miss out on the baptisms of her granddaughters on Saturday evening.  We made sure to video tape it for her and dad!

 On Sunday afternoon, she was suddenly dismissed!  We were rather surprised.

We had planned to have a birthday party for Dad and Mindy Sunday evening and she was sure she was going to miss that too.  She wanted the party to go on as planned and was so happy she would be able to be there to celebrate!

I took her home and she rested in the afternoon.

That evening, we wheeled my dad over from his room in the home.

He was so surprised and happy to see mom!!

We celebrated Dad's 91st birthday and Mindy's 30th!!

My oldest brother and wife sent him this unusual card.

You blow on the "candle" and it sings "happy birthday".

Everyone had to try it!

 My brother in Washington state sent Dad some albacore and home-made cookies.

We were so glad mom could make it home for the party!

We didn't let her lift a finger and kept the party short.

Daddy was so pleased to have mom there to celebrate!

We continue to pray for my mother.  She remains in good spirits and is cheerful as always.   

Missing

I found a missing SD card with some more photos of when the children came to our home.    The girls were so excited to come to our house for 4 days!

 Claire with her "Smile, Claire!" face

After dropping off their suitcases and stuffed animals and blankie, we took Mommy to the airport.  She flew to Chicago to meet Adam and spend a few fun days there.

We then went to a nearby park.

Walking around the lake by our home later on that week.

Hannah wanted to take some pictures

We had a fun half-week with the children!

Twenty-five years

Yesterday was the anniversary of Mom Graber's passing onto glory.

(I would have blogged yesterday but had to admit my own mother to the hospital with heart problems)

Kathern Marie Graber was born to Chris and Anna Graber.

This photo was taken just before Grandpa Graber passed away.

I love this picture of Grandma Graber reading her Bible.

Baby Kathern

Mom grew up in a modest home.

She is the youngest.

She attended Castleton highschool.  It is also the same highschool that my Dad attended.  In fact, in this picture below, she is in the front behind the drum and my Dad is behind her!

My Dad and Al's mother even had a couple of dates together!

 I think that's a hoot!

In this photo, Al's mom is 4th from the left.  My Dad is in the middle back.

After highschool, she went to business school.

She married Elmer (Bill) Graber, her 2nd cousin

She didn't even have to change her name!

Doesn't that make Al a 3rd cousin to himself?

 Aren't they a handsome pair?!

 

 This was the year that I first met Al.  It is possible actually that we also met when we were 2, when we came back to the States and went to the same church, but of course I cannot recall that.  I do remember Al in the 8th grade though, when we again came to the States!  I had a crush on him!  I don't know that he even knew I existed.  Well, that isn't true.  Our class was small - about 40 kids and I did sit in front of him part of the year.  Mostly I was probably a wierdo missionary kid who dressed funny.

But several years later, he fell in love with me!!

Mom had a profound influence on my life.

She was so kind.  Never an unkind word for anyone. 

My parents went back to Japan and she took me under her wings.

Taught me how to cut up a chicken and do so many other things!

She was a wonderful grandmother to our children!!

She rocked all of them in this rocker (which now is in my livingroom!)

Here they are meeting Mindy for the first time!

She always had M&Ms in hand for them!

 Besides being a wonderful farm wife, she worked at the bank in town and also was a very accomplished pianist.  She played piano for many people and especially enjoyed being a part of the Quiet Place Singers for 13 years!

 When we learned she had pancreatic cancer, we were devastated.  

We talked about dying...how the dying process is a little similar to birthing.  The labor can be short (as was hers.  She would barely make it to the hospital in time!) or can be very long.  Dying can be sudden or be drawn out.  Labor can be very painful.  It must be scary for the infant.  And the process of dying can be scary too.  The parents are so anxious to meet their precious new one and have been preparing the room just for him.  And Jesus is waiting for us and can't wait for us to come to the place He is preparing just for us!  And once that infant is in the loving arms of his parents, there is no way that it would want to go back in the womb.  In the same way, once we are welcomed by the Saviour, we will not long for this world.  

We can't wait to see you again, Mom Graber!!  We miss you very much!!  (Do you think they have M&M's in heaven?)

But we do not want you to be ignorant, brothers, about those who have died, so that you may not grieve like other people who have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so through Jesus God will bring those who have died with him. 1 Thess. 4:13