1st Mennonite cemetery, cont.

Continuing on from the prior post, we look at the Graber side of the family buried at the cemetery in Pretty Prairie. 

 This headstone belongs to Allen's parents.  He was a wheat farmer and she played the piano beautifully! We miss them so much.

Al's mother was asked to play the piano often, but most notably she played for this singing group that toured all over Kansas and in other states also.

This is my favorite picture of Al's Dad.

This tombstone belongs to Al's Dad's parents.

I never knew him since he passed away earlier, but Grandma B. (her nickname to differentiate from the other Grandma Graber) lived 2 doors down from our parsonage and she befriended me when we came to the States when I was 16.  She invited me into her home often.  Sometimes she would be quilting and let me help her with it.  We looked at pictures and she told me stories.  And she encouraged Allen to take me out!!

They had 4 children, but Ruth passed away at 4 months.

 Al's uncle Vic's grave.

And their son, Denny, Al's cousin, passed away while learning how to fly an airplane.  He was almost 17 years old.  We were home on furlough when that happened and I vividly remember it.  The week before, the youth group mowed the cemetery for a service day and Denny mowed the area that he was buried.

Grandma B's (Edna) parents. They are in the photo below, in the middle.

Grandma B. and Grandpa Ed are on the left back row.

Uncles Chris and Jonas, who lived on the farm Al grew up in,

 are on either side of the great-grandparents.  

The wildest story of the Goerings is that Grandma B. claims to be a first cousin with the notorious Herman Goering, Hitler's right hand man.


This tombstone belongs to Al's Dad's grandparents.  The log cabin in North Newton at the Kaufman museum was one she lived in before marrying Peter.  She was married to a man in South Dakota and when he died, she married Peter.

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This is Allen's mother's parents tombstone.  She also was a Graber before she got married.  Infact, Al's parents were 2nd cousins.  We joke that Al is a 3rd cousin to himself!  And, this is wierd too, my Dad and Al's Dad are 2nd cousins too.  And that makes Al and I 3rd cousins.  Yes, that is legal in Kansas to marry your relation.

Chris P. Graber and Anna Albright Graber

And this is Grandpa's parent's tombstone and photo.

The historic background of the Grabers, Goerings and Vorans are all similar.  The were originally with the Anabaptist movement of the Reformation Period.  Our forefathers were originally from Switzerland but there was bitter persecution of these Christians because they would not join the State run church.  Many were burned at the stake.  They left their Alpine homes and left for France near the Swiss border.  Although some stayed in France (there are still Grabers there) most left to go to Austria for awhile, then on to Russia where Katherine the Great granted them religious freedom for 100 years.  When they lost freedoms in Russia, our forefathers boarded ships for America in 1874.  Should we lose our freedoms here in America, as we are beginning to, would we go elsewhere?

Cemetery at 1st Mennonite in Pretty Prairie

February cemetery post ~

We are visiting cemeteries this year - ones that we have never seen before for the most part.  I find them so interesting!  This month I am posting on a cemetery we have been to many times though.  Where many of our family are buried.

   "Do not forget how the Lord your God has led you."  Deuteronomy 8:2

This is the First Mennonite Church outside of Pretty Prairie, Kansas.  If you ever go to the Pretty Prairie rodeo and come from Highway 17 (which recently was renamed to Highway 14 I heard), you will pass it.   It is the church my husband grew up going to and the church my daddy pastored for 6 years in the '70s.  When we were children, we called it the chocolate cake church.  That's what it looked like to us.

In the 1960's they made this addition to the front because the church was growing in numbers, but I love the look of the old and wish they could have kept it.

My grandparents told me that after Sunday evening services, the fellas would be on one porch and the girls on the other and they would make eyes at each other.  When Grandpa Carl and Grandma Martha got married in this church, it was a wintry night.  They snuggled under the blanket in the buggy and told the horse to go home.  He could find the way, blizzard or not.  And I think my grandparents had a  warm and cozy, fun time as it took the horse about an hour to plod home in the snow!

The first organization of the Mennonite Church took place in 1884 with 29 charter members.  They met in the home of one of the members. Land agents Brown and Bigger agreed to donate $50.00 toward a church if at least 9 sections were contracted for settlement.  And that is what happened.  The first building ended up becoming too small as more immigrants moved to the area, so a bigger one was built.    This one was destroyed by a tornado.  There were 2 more buildings (one destroyed by fire) before the "chocolate cake church" was built in 1928.

The cemetery is behind the church.

Many of the ancestors are from Russia (or Prussia), arriving in America in 1874, and before that they came from the Alcase, France and Switzerland area.

 Heilige Biebel - Holy Bible

They spoke German

 This has always been my favorite gravestone.

 My Dad's side of the family ~

       Grandpa Carl                                                        Grandma Martha

The story of the Vorans is quite interesting.  There was an orphan boy by the name of Paul.  He was an emaciated child of 5 and was following this man named Joseph Mundelheim.  Joseph was the son of a Roman Catholic nobleman thought to be a Count, Count Philip of Bavaria or Holland.  According to oral tradition, Joseph's father wanted him to enter the priesthood.  Joseph rebelled and ran away.  In his travels, he encountered the Mennonites and became enamored with their beliefs.  He married one of them, an Eliz Maurer.  The Mennonites at that time we traveling, seeking a place to live that would grant them religious liberty.  They were in Lemberg, Austria, (I've also heard that it was in Poland) in the late 1700's when Joseph ended up taking in this little boy, Paul, and raised him as a servant.  He gave him the last name "Voran", which means wanderer or traveler.

Paul Voran ended up in Edwardsdorf, Volhynia.  His grandson Jacob Voran emigrated to America.  My great-grandpa Peter (pictured below) was born a year after they arrived.  Grandpa Carl was born in McPherson County and then they moved to Pretty Prairie.  This is a picture of him with his parents.  His father died when he was 8 years old and his mother remarried.  They are buried elsewhere.

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Grandma Martha's parents

My grandma's father was 3 years old when he came to America, and his parents were in their 50's.  I could not imagine taking my family and packing it all up in a trunk and emigrating to another country and having to learn a new language.  Grandpa married Caroline, a widow who was 12 years older than him.

Back Row, left to right:
Alfred, John - the son of Caroline from another marriage, Carl, Otto, Helene and husband, Gerhard Goering
Front Row, left to right:
Bertha, Grandma Caroline, Martha (my grandma), Grandpa Benjamin, Marie

to be continued....

The Blessing Book

In our young mother's Bible study, we are going through the book "Real Moms...Real Jesus" by Jill Savage.  Today we talked about leading our children.  Our goal for our children is not only to "impart knowledge, but to transform a heart from the world's way to God's way."

This reminded me of "The Blessing Book" that our children received as a wedding gift.  You could make your own for your family.  There are lots of CUTE journals out there so get one and on the first page, you would write the following:

THE BLESSING BOOK

A record of God's love and faithfulness in the lives of the ____________ family.

"You must be very careful not to forget the things God has done for you. Keep reminding yourselves, and tell your children and grandchildren as well." Deuteronomy 4:9

On the next page was this note written to our kids as to what this book is about:

We are so thankful you are family. This book is an idea that was recently shared with us, and we want to share it with you because our book has meant so much to us! It is meant to be a written reminder of God's love and faithfulness in your lives. This idea is based on the "Stones of Remembrance" in Joshua 4. The Israelites took stones from the Jordan riverbed and set them in a special place as a reminder to them and their future generations of God's faithfulness to fulfill His promise to lead them into the Promised Land. Joshua says they did this so 'that all the peoples of the earth might know that the hand of the Lord is powerful and so that you might always fear the Lord your God.' v. 24.

You don't have to write in it every week or even every month - just write in it often. You can write big or little ways that God shows His love and faithfulness to you. And when you have children, they can write in it and share in the joy of seeing God work in your family's life. Then, when you are discouraged, you can look back as a family and remember God's faithfulness in the past and be encouraged to trust His faithfulness for the future. You can even take a special day of every year to review God's faithfulness over the last year. It could be your first family tradition! May God bless you as you acknowledge and remember Him.

Isn't this a great idea?  I love to keep track of how God has worked in our family's life and I hope you do too!  God is faithful in all He does!

                                  "What we have heard and known,
                                              what our fathers have told us.
                                 We will not hide them from their children;
                                                    we will tell the next generation
                                          the praiseworthy deeds of the Lord,
                                   His power, and the wonders He has done."
                                                                   Psalm 78:3-4

Rub-a-dub

The girls were here the other day.  They got quite dirty playing in the woods.  

That evening they wanted to take a bubble bath.

Peek-a-boo!

Do you like my dress, Nana?

Baby Claire joined them for the first time.

All clean!

Supper

This evening we took supper to a young couple who recently had twins -

 Ben and Daisy

I thought Sarah and JR looked pretty good considering being sleep deprived!  This couple has worked with me in the church nursery for 7 years.  I got to watch their romance blossom!  They are such servants and so very good with the children, comforting them and showing Jesus' love to them.

And here is a picture of them back on 2008, holding Ollie, who is now in kindergarten!  Now, they have their own nursery!

 I believe these are the tiniest babies I have ever held!  Daisy is a little over 4 pounds and Ben a little over 5. Our own son was 5 lb. 5 oz.

After dropping off supper for this sweet family, we went to my parents' home to help them out with a few things, then we took them to supper.  Braums is one of their favorite places!  Jill and Claire came too!

  Yummy food!!   And of course we had to finish off with ice-cream!

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It has been freezing here!  On Monday the temperature hovered around 70 and everyone was out in short sleeves.  The next day I took this picture!  It is Kansas, after all!  If you don't like the weather, just wait a day!

A couple more pictures of my sweet Claire.

The little red mark on her face?  Just a grandma peck (from my lipstick).  I love kissing all of my sweet grandbabies!!